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CAN YOU BREAK A LOSING STREAK?

  • Writer: Liam Cleary
    Liam Cleary
  • Nov 17
  • 4 min read

Every coach, captain, or club eventually faces this question:


“Why do we keep losing?”

Sometimes, it feels like nothing works; you train hard, show up, give speeches, and still walk away frustrated. But losing consistently doesn’t just happen by chance. It’s a symptom. Something deeper is off, and if you can identify what it is, you can fix it.


The hard part is that losing exposes everything: leadership cracks, weak commitment, poor preparation, bad attitudes, or lack of belief. However, blaming one area alone, the coach, the players, or the tactics, is rarely the complete answer.


Teams lose because of systems, not just individuals.

So, how do you find the real cause? You break it down, honestly, piece by piece.




Start with the Coaching

The first place to look is leadership; not to assign blame, but to assess clarity. Ask yourself:


  • Are the sessions structured, with a clear objective and progression each week?

  • Are tactics consistent, or are they constantly changing game to game?

  • Do players understand their roles, or are they confused on the field?

  • Are practices being used to correct mistakes seen in matches?


If players are guessing what to do, or if sessions lack intensity, that’s not a player issue; it’s a planning issue. Coaches set tone and structure. The most talented roster in the world will crumble without consistent leadership and clarity.


A coach doesn’t have to be perfect, but they must be organized, adaptable, and direct. The team reflects their energy.




Look at Practices

Practice tells you everything about a team. If sessions are casual, distracted, or disorganized, then the games will be, too. Ask these questions:


  • Are players taking training seriously, or treating it like a social event?

  • Do drills build toward actual match situations, or are they random exercises?

  • Is the practice tempo high enough to match game intensity?

  • Are coaches reinforcing accountability and effort?


A team that trains half-heartedly plays half-heartedly. When practice lacks structure or discipline, players tend to lose focus.


When there’s no competition in training, they lose hunger.

If the quality of practice doesn’t reflect the demands of competition, losing becomes inevitable.




Check Conditioning and Fitness

It’s often overlooked, but fitness can be the silent reason teams fall apart late in games. You’ll see it when players can’t maintain pressure, stop tracking back, or lose focus after what seems like a few minutes of the game. Ask:


  • Are players fading physically before the final whistle?

  • Is conditioning part of regular training, or an afterthought?

  • Do players skip warm-ups or cool-downs?


Fatigue doesn’t just drain legs; it clouds decision-making.


A tired player loses their shape, forgets instructions, and reacts slower.

When a team’s fitness drops, so does confidence. You can’t fix tactical issues if the team can’t physically execute the plan.




Assess the Players Themselves

Sometimes it’s not the system, it’s the personnel.


Are the players good enough, committed enough, and mentally strong enough for the level they’re competing at?

Ask:


  • Do they consistently show up to practice?

  • Do they hold each other accountable, or wait for coaches to do it?

  • Are they willing to learn, adapt, and work through challenges?


Talent matters, but attitude matters more. A few players with negative energy, constant complaints, or a lack of effort can quickly poison a team's culture. That doesn’t mean cutting everyone, it means being honest about who fits the vision and who doesn’t.


Sometimes the problem isn’t how you’re playing — it’s who you’re playing with.



Evaluate Leadership and Captains

Captains can make or break a team environment. The best captains don’t just wear armbands; they lead in tone, communication, and accountability.


Ask:


  • Are the captains vocal in the right way, encouraging, not demeaning?

  • Do they arrive first, depart last, and demonstrate professionalism?

  • Do they bridge the gap between players and coaches, or widen it?


If captains contribute to division or cliques, morale crumbles. Leadership should bring calm, not chaos. The best teams have captains who understand when to speak and when to lead by action. If that’s not happening, reevaluate who wears the band. Leadership should be earned, not given by default.




Examine the Team Culture

Culture is the undercurrent behind every win or loss. When things go wrong, listen closely, not to excuses, but to the tone.


  • Do players blame others after games?

  • Is negativity spreading on social media, in group chats, or on the sideline?

  • Are players mocking teammates or the club when things go wrong?

  • Is there visible frustration between coaches and players?


Negativity kills effort faster than fatigue. When communication becomes toxic, even minor issues can escalate into significant problems.


Teams that lose together but stay united eventually turn things around. Teams that point fingers fall apart completely.

Culture has to be protected daily. Coaches can’t do it alone; it has to be a shared standard among the players.




Identify Fear, Doubt, and Complacency

Sometimes the issue isn’t visible; it’s internal. Fear, doubt, and complacency creep in quietly. You’ll see it when:


  • Players stop taking risks.

  • Effort drops once the scoreline turns.

  • Players mentally check out after setbacks.

  • Nobody seems hungry anymore.


Fear paralyzes effort. Doubt erodes belief. Complacency convinces players they’re working hard when they’re not.


A mentally fragile team doesn’t lose because of ability; it loses because it doesn’t believe in itself.


That’s where coaches and captains must reframe the mindset:


"Losing streaks don’t define you; how you respond to them does."

Confidence is rebuilt through small wins, sharper sessions, better communication, and improved conditioning. Fix the details, and the results follow.




Losing Isn’t Final

Losing hurts. It should. But consistent losing is a signal, not a sentence. It means something isn’t aligned: the plan, the preparation, or the people.


The solution isn’t yelling louder or training longer; it’s working smarter, with honesty and purpose. Be willing to evaluate everything, from warm-ups to leadership habits, and make the necessary changes.


The best teams don’t avoid losing; they learn from it.


Because once a team finds the real reason behind the results, it doesn’t just stop losing games. It starts winning again, the right way.

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